We’ve all heard the saying, feel the fear and do it anyway, but that’s easier said than done. Sometimes we also need a compelling reason to give us the push we need. Well as per the infographic created by the great team at Sage below, the UK could receive a much needed boost of 33 million if a few more of us took the leap. Is that enough of an incentive for you? This infographic was produced by Sage UK I am Jenny Garrett, Executive Coach, founder of
Amber Khan is one of the guest speakers on my Women’s Leadership Success programme taking place on 4th March, 2013 Below she shares her thoughts on why women feel so guilty. Women can feel guilty about any & everything. For many women, the driving force in their lives is guilt. Somewhere along the way, it all becomes a matter of doing it all. According to a daily mail article , a survey has found that more than 96 per cent of women feel guilty at least once a day, while for almost half, the feeling strikes up to four times a day. Women tend to… Be perfectionists . You feel guilty because you feel as though you have to live up to unrealistic expectations, and you cannot make mistakes. Blame themselves . If you fail at even the slightest thing, you start to blame yourself for not being good enough. Then you feel guilty for being somehow “lesser than” all those women/mothers who seem to be doing it right. Can’t say No . Throughout history, women have been those who pleased others. Admit it we are people pleasers. Even when you really want to say NO, the only 3 letter word which comes out of your mouth is YES. If you do say No, the feeling immediately turns into guilt. Put others first . We care for our partners, families, friends & co-workers. We do & buy things for them but feel guilty when we consider those things for ourselves or even to take time out for ourselves. Be control freak . We tend to take responsibility of everything at work or at home and shy away from delegating chores. Why? Because we are afraid of losing control. We’d rather boast about our multi-tasking skills than face the music of feeling ill, stressed, overweight & exhausted. The guilt builds and builds until it becomes not a consequence, but rather, that driving force that keeps you moving forward even as a little piece of you is screaming to slow down, take a deep breath, take it easy, and don’t let life sweep you away with the tidal wave. Do you recognise any of the above traits in yourself, found yourself nodding away to some? Come along to the
I came across this Blog by Ann Ulrich through one of the members of my LinkedIn group Afi Afori, who incidentally has launched the Women in Sales awards which will take place this year Every one of us needs to be confident about what we have to offer the world.
RockingYourRole_Jenny Garrett I’ve just come back to work from 3 weeks off over the Christmas period, which was fantastic.